He's bad for her. how do i help her get over him?

I know how you feel, and you're not being harsh. You care about her and want to protect her. Everyone can see that :) We have a similar problem in our family. My sister is going out with a guy that doesn't treat her right, she knows this but still loves him. We all have a go at her for being with him but it doesn't make a difference.She just tells us to shut up. I think the best thing you can do is spend time with her, have fun together, let her know you care. But don't try to control her, i know you're only trying to help but she won't see it that way. Be there for her if he hurts her. Sometimes we have to step back and let our loved ones make their own decisions. The best thing we can do is be there for them forever and especially when things go wrong x Best of luck with everything